Journaling about sleep fall and anxiety, family problems and personal ones helped not sleep fall the night before.
Putting words to feelings, verbalizing and objectification of one’s interiority are all of a big help.
Often, a problem requires not a radical devastating solution but a lukewarm one, at least for the near future. And oftentimes, lukewarm means hiding partly the truth. Lying can paradoxically save lives, so it’s not an absolute evil thing all the time.
Adaptation is an intelligent resilience.